10 Recipes So Effective Parents

Being a parent is no ideal formula. However, to become effective parents, you 10 may consider the following recipes. "First, recognize your child. Whether he is conscious or jovial. Then treat your child according to the character, do not force children to become characters other, "said psychologist Frieda Mangunsong in Goodbye press'10 How Parents Become Effective in Gran Hotel Melia, Jl HR Rasuna Said, Kuningan, South Jakarta, Wednesday (15/8/2007). Second, when children do not apply cuek sweet and good. Give praise for all the things he did. "Things are small. If he do so with well, do not delay anymore, directly give a compliment, " Frieda said. Third, children must be involved in activities and family decisions. Of course parents should be porsinya adjust to the age of the child. For example, discuss the matter with the holidays and give children the task of households that are lightweight. "For example, fold towel, "Frieda supplement. Fourth, take advantage of the opportunity to juxtapose themselves with children. Even when you are in the middle congestion, take advantage of that time as well as possible for call the child. If there is time watching television together, to instill values in children. "Fifth, provide special time for both of course with children. For example, the take or pick up from school, "he said. Sixth, the discipline must ditegakkan. You must also make sure your version of the same discipline with discipline version nanny or your children. However, do not the discipline as a technique that educate children main. "As a result, parents will be punished and violence in educating children, "said Frieda. Seventh, he continued, be a good example for child. For the child is ingenious and makes the imitator parents as a pattern. "If children want to clean, yes we have to clean. If you do not want children autis, O cerewetlah also occasionally, "funny Frieda. Eighth, ungkapkan love you. Do not consider lightly with the children already know with certainty itself. Words, fondling, cuddle, kiss and have important meaning for them. "You can also give a short letter 'mama pity you 'or to provide pictures or interest hearts with the message 'interest for the child mama', "said Frieda. Ninth, note communication with the child. Do not sure, have eye contact important influence on business it. "If you teriakkan rules or commands from another room, it will not be effective. Do not leave notify you with a cry or something carp, "said Frieda. Tenth, not until you solve the problem when you are angry. For if the words irritate you lontarkan, it is possible that the words in the imprint marrow of children. "Remember, be an example for the children," his him.
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